Sunday, September 17, 2017

How To Cut Off Any Guy Who is Bugging You

How To Cut Off A Guy Who is Bugging You.
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Welcome back to my blog, in this post we're going to be talking about how you can cut off a guy that is bugging you. Now, we've all been in situations where you meet someone, they try to ask you for your number, they want to get to know you better, they want to be friends with you. blah blah blah... we all know the stories that they tell and now, this person is making your life unbearable. He's always calling you, he's always texting you, he's always snap chatting you, sending you DMs like please bro, don't you have a life apart from trying to disturb me?? 😒 Anyways I'm going to be giving you guys some tips on how you can cut such people off and get them off your case.

Now there are different approaches and it all depends on the kind of person that you are, you can be a really blunt, straightforward and direct person and just tell them as it is or you may be like me and not want to hurt their feelings so you might want to let them down easy. 

Now if you're a blunt and direct person, first way I'd say is tell them off, tell them you're not interested in getting to know them, tell them their calls are disturbing your day and running down your battery and you're just not ready to entertain any of their talks and tell them to leave you alone.

But if you're like me and you don't want to hurt anyone's feelings, then I'd say you use some subtle ways like...

How To Cut Off A Guy Who is Bugging You.
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1. Stop taking their calls, whenever they call you, put your phone on silent and let it be as though you're busy, you didn't see the calls and when they do see you, just be like "oh, I've been really busy" or "my phone has been on silent for days" or something, just make it seem like you not wanting to talk to them wasn't deliberate 😀. 

2. Don't reply their messages on time, let their messages stay for hours, for a day or two, a week before you probably remember and send them a reply then probably they'll get the message that you do not want to be bothered or you really do not place replying their messages on your priority list.

3. If they still persist and this isn't someone you would even want to have a platonic friendship with or would want to say hi to when you bump into them on the street, I'd say you should block them. Use the block button ladies, use the block button. Every app, every social platform now has a block button, block them on snap chat, block them on Whatsappp, block them on Instagram, block them on Facebook, from phone calling you just basically BLOCK them and that's how you put an end to the pestering.  

The block button is actually the easiest, most effective and most finalised way cause for most guys, when you block them, they kind of have some self-respect and self-dignity and will feel hurt that you blocked them cause let's face it no one enjoys getting blocked, so out of respect for themselves, they wouldn't want to associate with you in the physical but if they do come to confront you, then you can physically block them, shout at them, embarrass them in public and then, they might leave you alone or don't even give them the time of day. 

So I hope these tips help you get any present & future disturbances off your back. What have been your experiences with guys that can't just take a hint and leave you alone? Share in the comments below and also what post would you like to see from me next? 

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