Sunday, July 23, 2017

Girl Talk || Guys Never Noticed Me, Why?

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So I started this blog mainly to share information with other girls my age who are transitioning from being a little girl to being a young woman and all the experiences, emotions and basically everything we go through in that stage. I was going through that time of growth and evolution and that's why I started this blog to connect with others who were facing the same things I was.

So expect such posts on the blog while still dabbling into some  fashion, beauty and lifestyle. So when I was in secondary school, in fact forget secondary school, since primary school or since whenever my mind was old enough to know that a girl and a boy can like each other in a deeper different way from the normal like (isn't it funny, normal like like there's an abnormal one πŸ˜‚), anyways, the boys at that time never really noticed me and even if they noticed me, they never liked me in any special way and I wasn't very happy about it like, obviously I wasn't so sad or depressed about it like why would I be? But you guys, they just didn't like me that much, forget that much, they didn't like me at all and I don't know why... and till now, I still can't understand why. πŸ˜“

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I'm always the friend who is listening to gist about guys from the other friends who have so many guys all over them but I never have any gist of my own to give or giving advice but I don't have any boys on my own case even if it's just one ugly one or something. I don't know why they didn't like me for real, I know when I was younger, I was chubby, I had a tummy and still do but at least I know girls who were even chubbier than I was and still used to get boys' attention but not me, not Danie. And I used to make my hair, I used to look nice I think at least we weren't allowed to wear make up back then or was I that ugly or I didn't have a nice shape or was there something about my name. I'm telling you guys, from boys in school to boys in church, boys around, boys where I used to go and make my hair, family friends just none fam, none 😒and I used to have many secret crushes that didn't know I existed, lol.

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So if you're reading this and you are thinking to yourself why don't I ever get noticed, why won't someone come up to me and at least show interest, tell me I'm pretty even if it's not real or nothing serious, at least let me feel special, I just want you to know that you don't need any boy to make you feel loved, cared for or special. One,you have your parents, your family, friends even if it's just girl friends and God, God is crazy about you in case you don't know and you have yourself. Love yourself no matter how anyone feels or doesn't feel about you look yourself in the mirror and tell yourself you're beautiful, you're pretty and don't be waiting on any boy to tell you so. And the truth is, when you look back on all those current  crushes in the next few months or years or just boys that you just were dying to talk to, you wouldn't even understand what it is you saw in them or why you even wanted to have anything to do with such people, I bet you.

So sorry if this post is too long, ask me anything or tell me anything in the comments below, were you the popping girl whose number or name every guy wanted to know or have or are you the friend of the popping girl who is listening to gist and giving advice, let me know in the comments. Thanks for reading guys, please share this post with the social share buttons below and follow me on  INSTAGRAM || FACEBOOK || TWITTER || BLOGLOVIN and SUBSCRIBE to the blog if you haven't already (so you can receive updates before any one else).

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  1. For some reason, this post made me laugh. In my primary school I was one of the popping girls and I hated it like crazy, it brought a lot of negative attention to me and even our proprietor's son that was crushing on me then even started spreading gist that we had sexπŸ˜³πŸ™„ so when I entered secondary school, I ran from people like everybody. I basically made myself the girl by the corner by all means. Nice postπŸ™ŒπŸ½πŸ™ŒπŸ½ I could go on and on but let me hold myself πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚


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