Wednesday, January 04, 2017

Never Had A Squad + My Love for Chunky Heels

So this post is long over due and I apologise for being as inconsistent as can be. Welcome to the the 20th girls chat post oh my God. Thank you so much for always always keeping it a date, for your love and support, comments and shares, you guys are amazing. Happy New Year if I haven't said that on here yet. I'm not too sure. 

So today is actually a chat chat, like I mean a real chat like just me and you, me and you, you get lol. So let's get on into it. Hope your week is going better than mine though. Emmmmm... how do I start. So the title says never had a squad, true very true. I think 2016 was the year of squads thanks to social media. "Squads be popping", "You can't sit with us" "Squad goals" "No squad can cross us" and all those kind of things. I have always wanted to belong to a squad you know  like the cool girls clique, you know. Like the ones we see in American high school movies where you and your friends 2,3,4, or more of you are like the coolest, freshest, flyiest (is flyiest a word??) humans around the block. Your outfits, hair, shoes, makeup, confidence is just on fleek and like you demand some "respeck" when you walk into the room, all eyes be on you. Everyone be all about you. like you have heads turning like who are they?? 

Okay like but more seriously, I just always wanted to be part of a girls' group where we all slay together, like we are all about each other, kind of like a tight knit friendship where we go through each others life drama together and still slay, emphasis on slay. I don't know, it's just part of the introvert and insecure girl's struggle. Like you have people around you that you like and want to be like but you're scared to talk to them or you tried once and they shunned you and you don't want to be embarrassed again. Or you're just waiting patiently for the glow up so you can maybe fit in, get in line, get in formation but it's not just coming, like glow up, where are you? Where art thou? So am I the only one that dreams of having a squad but has never and maybe will never be part of one. I should maybe just form a squad with my sister and mom, yeah and my aunties, lol.

Alright so,  I was going through the zaful site shoe categories and under sandals; saw these beauties and have been dreaming of them ever since. I thought I'd share them with you guys.  I own just one pair of chunky heeled sandals and I wear it like all the time, they're black, my mom got them for me, thank you mommy!! Mwah. High heels make a girl look really elegant, posh and classy and chunky heels are my faves. I think comfort is key when it comes to fashion and these chunky heels are still high heeled but super balanced and you can wear them longer without having your feet hurt unlike other kinds of high heels. Apart from the fact that they are trending, they can go from formal to casual to dressed up. Like they can go with jeans, a dress, traditional, corporate like they're so versatile and I love them so much. These ones from Zaful are really beautiful, when you click on any shoe it takes you to the site, just in case any of you might be interested in getting any or just browsing through the store. 





I tried to pick faves out of these ones but I couldn't fam. I love them all and I want them all. *crying*. One of the reasons why I need to work hard in life and make this "schmoney". Let me know what you guys think about this chat, the squads thing and do you love these chunky heels as well? Have you shopped from zaful, I want to try cause they offer free standard shipping which is awesome. Leave me your thoughts and please subscribe to the blog via email if you haven't yet, it's down below if you're on a phone and on the right side of the screen if you're on a computer, thank you. That's all from this side of the universe for now. Thank you so much for reading, lots of love to you. Until the next post, hugs!

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  2. Platform heeled sandal is my first love, chunky is my true love. First love never dies but true love can bury it alive.

    1. Jaylee hun, platform heels are nice and super comfortable as well ut some platforms are too much for me. Chunky and strappy heels all the way! Thanks for reading love! xx

  3. The top two shoes on the left are just 'to die for'-I want them too!!! Lol. Nice blog. was in a clique, twas really fun, had many fights, reconciliations, eating together, lots of fun, studying together, laughing at each other, learning from one another;we were a good family. Still good friends even after the biggest fights, but need to see and know more than just us, to explore the world more. Love em soooo much.

  4. awwwww, you really do love them. And you're right about knowing more than just them and exploring. Thanks Mimi for reading and sharing. xx


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