Friday, June 17, 2016

What if I fall? Oh my darling, what if you fly?

Hi guys (including girls) !! It's been a while.  How's everyone doing?  Thanks to all who have read my previous posts.  It means soo much to me. Today I came across a quote about the title above and it got me thinking.  There are so many things I have wanted to do in my life,  so many people I wanted to introduce myself too and talk too,  so many requests I wanted to make but I thought about it. What if they say no? What if I mess up?  What if people don't like it?  What if I am rejected?  What if I fail? And just like the title what if I fall?  Too many times, our thoughts are just on the worst case scenario and we never do anything because we are always thinking of the negative.  We keep over thinking and try to be cautious meanwhile it's the risk takers who make news, who dream and then realise their dreams.  Think this way, what if I succeed? What if I fly?  What's the best case scenario?

And more importantly, that something didn't work out for me the first time doesn't mean I have failed.

F - first
A - attempt 
I -  in
L - learning

Instead of thinking you have lost or you have failed,  you have discovered one wrong of way of doing something and the next time you try, you will do it the other way.  If you are trying to approach someone and they say no to you,  so what?   It doesn't take anything off you if you're are really confident in yourself and you know your worth. He or she could say no,  yeah but what if they say yes?

  For me, knowing that I tried and it didn't work is much better than living in the uncertainty of what could have been if I had actually done something. 

 One of my favorite quotes of 2016 is "Sometimes we need to just do first and think later" 😁. J.  K.  Rowling did say "it is impossible to live without failing at something unless you live so cautiously that you might as well not have lived at all - in which case,  you fail by default" Don't live life so cautiously, do that thing, take that step and see what happens.  It could be the best decision you ever made. Until the next post,  #chinupandbefabulous #dofirstthinklater

P. S.  Incase you're wondering who J.  K.  Rowling is. She is just a badass author who happened to write the entire Harry Potter series and other books.

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